Love Letter To My Soul Mate(s)

Soul Mate(s), there is a great episode on SITC where Carrie realizes her soul mate isn't one person, and it isn't a man, it is her friends.

This morning I woke up realizing the same thing, how incredible blessed I am to have a circle of women around me who have been there, they inspire, make me laugh, we annoy each other, get jealous when someone loses weight and can fit into a sample size even though we are also thrilled for that person, we support, and each live incredibly individual lives.

These women live around the world, we communicate through texts, skype, email, Facebook, Instagram and when modern time allows us to be around at the same time telephone calls.  We are always in each others lives somehow.  I never feel out of touch with these women, even when months go by, the moment we reconnect in person, is like no time has passed although we have a lot of details to catch up on.  

Incredible bonds, we often say one day we are going to start a commune and live together, I can't even imagine, because my face would hurt from laughing all the time.

My soul mate isn't one man, it is the women I have created loving bonds with over the years, the ones that show up for each break up, health scare, or just because, the ones for no matter how long or short in between visits easily transition into the next, these are my heros, my inspiration, my soul mates and the loves of my life.